Dutch Yaoi Fans

@ Link: I know, I'm shameless that way.... like one of my friends said after having seen me on my 'vrijgezellenfeest', "You're really free in your sexuality aren't you?"
I have no problem about a nude beach as well. I'm just who I am and my sexuality is a part of that... but if that makes you uncomfortable, I'll try to keep it discreet Oh my, that's a bit difficult, but maybe I'll manage in my old age

Maybe I'll go see if I can follow a couple of classes there in Amsterdam Sounds mightily interesting! Hey heehee, maybe we can go together???
Hmmmm, how was my first time again???? *thinks really deeply but is bothered by post-pregnancy dementia*

btw, I love talking about sexuality as well....but I don't want to bother Link...

@heehee, no sorry haven't taken time to look into it yet... maybe later... busy with preparations for christmasthingies at school

Gender studies hm whats that all about, i'm completely stuck with school at the moment, have no idea what I want xD.
I'm far too shy as well when it comes to sex and stuff though. I only told one female friend (though she's not my friend anymore) that i'm bi I just know my other friends are going to feel awkward.

I admit I would feel awkward at first if one of my friend told me he/she is bi (I think I would laugh a bit too, because I really can't imagine my actual friends as such). But if someone I just let told me he/she is bi, then I might not feel at ease at all, unless it's a person with who it just kliks (when you're together)

I dunno if I would ever dare showing my interest in sexuality openly either. My parents must realize smth 'cause it slips out from time to time, but they can put it on the fact that I'm 21 YO and that it's a time when young ones get horny (I'm a late bloomer)

And for another thing on me, well, I'm straight, but I wouldn't feel disgusted with a girl, just that it's far less exciting then. And ma lesbian friend told me clearly that my whole attitude is straight, so it'll never happen I guess...(still I'm curious about it, it would be less frightening for a first time)

@link; if you feel really uncomfortable with this kind of talk let me know and I'll stop!

Strangely, I'm completely unbothered about others' sexuality.

Even when the ex of a friend of mine (he's one of my neighbours) told me about his threesome, I just stood there "was it nice for you?" heheh, he was totally shocked...

Well Sas and heehee, I am quite open about sex on the internet. I think it's the inpersonal distance I have over here. In real life I would just say sorry and sorry and I'm so sorry! continously. I can't even say the word homosexuality without tripping over the word (its difficult to pronounce >_<) I am writing a paper about Yaoi and its bloody hard to keep it low profile as possible, I just explain that I'm writing about womens literature in Japanese cartoons..... that's vague enough to be 'safe'.

So you can talk about anything over here. That's why I could so easily argue about homosexuality and even write down the word gay-porn. In real life, I'd be as gently as possible to avoid using the words, I would say: adult material with men in the leading role, women's fiction with boys bonking or literature for women by women o.0. Jup, I know, I can be very inventive with words when its going get's though >_<

Wow Link, you are a true academic in how you use your words.... you could get into politics if you weren't so shy !!
And yeah, I caught on your carefullness last time we met You're kinda cute that way you know

I always enjoy watching peoples shocked expressions when they think they know me (as a nice, sweet girl/mommy) and when somehow the discussion turns to sex they are so shocked about my openness.

I have yet to find a friend of mine who likes yaoi as well, although lots of people have requested me to send one of my stories to them Of which I am strangely selfconscious somehow....
But discussing things that actually happened.... doesn't bother me at all (am I strange or what?)....

Maybe I'm an exhibitionist??

One word sas: viespeuk

haha! Link, that was right on the mark!

Well today I went to my course and there are some ppl, guys incl, I have a good relationship with, and we were talking about homosexuality prety openly (2 guys were trying to best each other and it became trying to repulse the other by being too close)lol It was fun, they weren't homo, but still not touchy about the word and the eventuality... It was a good laugh!

Hi everone, I'm back from my leave of absence. I am almost done for the x-mas break (meaning I'm almost done with the assignments I needed to do for this week )

And link was the big problem with Gender studies??? Well I mean you are gay OO so euuhmmm.... shouldn't you do it? (I'm doing a minor gender studies and I don't give a **** what ppl think >>)

and you ppl type way too much. I can't even keep up >< oh well, I'm almost done with the updating of the guest list for the meeting. We now have 16 participants and counting (although some people might not be able to come)







An other important service announcement:

I'm going to send an e-mail this weekend to all participants which will give them the ability to cast a new vote in favour of a certain date. This, simply, because the last poll is to close to tell, besides it got kinda messy. Also there are some people who aren't registered to this forum and thus have not read the thread and haven't been able to cast their vote. To give them a fair shot, I have decided to give them this opportunity. So if you want to cast your vote on the date you have until this weekend to register (after that you can still register to go on the trip, but you won't be able to vote on the date)

Every e-mail gets but one vote, so if you have friends coming (who didn't individually registered) you can't vote for them.

*huf,huf* Damn, trying to cacth up again...

@ChibiYunie: Congrats!! ^^

@sas: Hehe, you sound like someone that can definitely shock people. Hehe. But I guess I´m fine with most things anyway. Try having a mom with a new girlfriend and thin walls... >< *hehe* After that, everything´s fine with me.

Gender studies sounds really cool. ^^ I´m not sure If I´d be able to tell things in front of all those people without looking like a sundried tomato (colour as well as appearance).

...and, the frisian tornado? ^^" That sounds scary... *hehe*