Are you uke or seme?

LOL i cant say that stecher "won" because that means that huddy thinks that stecher is uke in denial haha 8D
+ he got a cup of shame
*gives huddy a choco cookie* <:

ontopic (atleast i think it is xD):
r straight guys always seme? i kinda live in a world where the guy is always dominating the girl haha xD

it depends xD
I would say the guy is seme aslong the girl wants it xD

I guess most girls want to be able to rely on their boyfriend. They want to feel comfy ( - sorry) and being guarded... that's why they look for a seme xD

reading your ques again, I guess that is no direct answer....
more like... I kinda think I also know some hetero boys who want to get pampered sometimes. but... they THINK (!) they have more chances with the girls if they're manly and... seme :3

I think in a true partnership both sides have to be seme AND uke
Then nobody has any disadvantage xD

I am finally able to say: "Stecher, I totally agree with you!"

*is astonished*
*gives a cookie* :3

lol, i guess i was one of those guys who thought that girls always want a manly man, except a few exception girls haha

seme and uke.. yea i guess that would be perfect. but it might be complicated if both were in uke mood, atleast i think that xD. i imagine people have preferences about being uke or seme ;o!

did i throw in the "uke-uke relationship"-topic in before? im not sure xD

*eats the cookie in one piece and is nearly dying*

sure you have an preference but in a true relationship its Give and take
And with that it means you must do sometimes things that arent that interesting for you… i will give an example in german sry
Shoppen gehen xD, männer findens nicht so berauschend wie frauen dennoch gehen wir „gerne“ mit einkaufen um allein schon Zeit mit IHR verbringen zu können bzw. vl doch selber was finden. Aber von selber gehen wir nicht zu ihr und sagen LASS UNS SHOPPEN GEHEN XD

And the uke-uke thing…
Then one has to jump into the cold water and become a ice-cold seme xD
Or better, both please the other because they love each other xD

gaystuff:
I read on a homepage form a gay-guy, that the 'real' gays change the uke/seme-thing (wie die halt ins timmung sind)
(it was a page, from a gay for all slash-writers haha)

lol "real" gays? xD but yea i hear that alot too. though i guess i am one of those who have a 98% preference haha
my new theory i just made up is that u could judge people by their looks if they r uke or seme and THEN find each other :D

real gays vs. yaoi-gays XDD